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Bethany Ford's avatar

I have mixed feelings about Barbie. I loathe her, sometimes I want to be her, and I even miss playing with her at times.

I think any woman after Barbie came out has a difficult relationship with this doll. She represents a lot of what is wrong with society in the United States. Even knowing this intellectually, our idea of what a woman should be is so intertwined with what she represents that we can't seem to not view her as the ideal. They came out with dolls that represented normal women but when those dolls were placed next to Barbie, it felt like they were lacking somehow. They weren't nearly as pretty or sparkly. They just didn't have the same oomph. That right there perfectly encapsulates how I feel about myself. That I lack that sparkle, that beauty. I am the lack-luster doll lying next to Barbie.

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Linda Bonney's avatar

Maybe my Mum shared much of your thoughts because she was pretty anti-barbie so I don't remember having many growing up.

When we finally found ourselves with one that made its way into the backseat of the car, somehow my sister and I were infatuated.

It was a wedding Barbie with thick hair and a glamorously painted smile that almost haunted my dreams.

From memory, I think I might have cut its hair and ripped off an arm, leg and possibly a head in the end (much to my sister's horror!).

What a bloody anti-climax after years of 'waiting'.

So much love for this article. I also loved every word.

More more more....please?!?

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